Boarding Quiz

Necessary questions for a peaceful co-existence.

STEP 1: INTENTION SETTING

What brings you to She Sails?
 (Choose one)

  • I want to co-purchase land or a home with other women
  • I want to attend or co-create a wellness retreat
  • I’m open to both
  • I’m just exploring
  • I’m listing my own retreat
  • I have land/hone to offer

🏡 IF: CO-PURCHASING PROPERTY

1A. What is your total property budget?

  • Under $50,000
  • $50,000–$100,000
  • $100,000–$250,000
  • $250,000+

1B. Where would you love to live?

  • Europe
  • America
  • Hawaii
  • Somewhere tropical or exotic
  • On a farm
  • Doesn’t matter what country

1C. Are you open to…
 (Select all that apply)

  • Co-owning land/home
  • Living off-grid (solar, rainwater, compost)
  • Tiny home living
  • Building a community from scratch
  • Joining an existing female-owned property

1D. What is your ideal living rhythm?

  • Totally peaceful & remote
  • Nature mixed with community activities
  • I need to be close to a town or city
  • Doesn’t matter, as long as I vibe with the women

🧘‍♀️ IF: RETREAT/VACATION FOCUSED

2A. What do you most crave from this retreat?
 (Pick up to 2)

  • Rest & recharge
  • Sisterhood & bonding
  • Creativity & inspiration
  • Spiritual growth
  • Adventure & nature
  • Deep healing

💫 SHARED FILTERS (BOTH GROUPS CONTINUE HERE)

ENERGY & GROUP DYNAMICS

2B. What kind of energy do you bring to a group?

  • Quiet and calm
  • Playful and funny
  • Emotional support / nurturing
  • Organized and planning-focused
  • Deep thinker and connector

2C. What kind of energy do you not vibe with?
 (Pick all that apply)

  • Party girls
  • People who bring men
  • Loud or dramatic energy
  • People glued to their phones
  • People who don’t clean up
  • People who avoid conflict

2D. How structured do you like your days?

  • Fully planned
  • Light structure, mostly free
  • A little of both
  • Let’s co-create it

2E. What’s your personal budget?

  • Under $500
  • $500–$1000
  • $1000–$2000
  • $2000+

2F. Are you comfortable sharing a room?

  • Yes, happy to share
  • Yes, but only with 1 person
  • Prefer my own space

2G. Meal preferences?

  • Plant-based only
  • Organic / clean eating
  • I eat everything
  • I like shared cooking
  • I’d rather not cook or clean

🍷 LIFESTYLE & EMOTIONAL STATE

2H. Do you drink wine or alcohol?

  • Yes, often
  • Occasionally
  • Rarely
  • Not at all

2I. Are you newly divorced or separated?

  • Yes, within 6 months
  • Yes, within 1–2 years
  • Not newly, but I’m single
  • In a relationship or married
  • Prefer not to say

2J. Do you go to bed early or late?

  • Early sleeper
  • Night owl
  • Flexible

2K. Do you love animals enough to live with them?

  • Yes, I travel/live with pets
  • Yes, but not in shared space
  • Prefer no animals at all

2L. Are you clean or messy in shared spaces?

  • Clean freak
  • Tidy and respectful
  • Creative chaos
  • Honestly messy—but I try

2M. Do you do drugs or smoke?

  • No, never
  • Occasionally, socially
  • Daily / regularly
  • I prefer a substance-friendly environment

2N. Is music part of your vibe?

  • Yes, all day
  • Sometimes, depends on the mood
  • I prefer quiet

🔥 PERSONALITY & VALUES FILTERS

2O. Are you generous?

  • Extremely
  • Time generous, not always money
  • I help when I can
  • Not really

2P. Are you a know-it-all?

  • No, I love learning from others
  • A little—I speak confidently
  • Yes, but I try to be nice
  • I’m working on that

2Q. Do you always need to be in charge?

  • No, I follow or flow
  • Sometimes—I lead naturally
  • Yes—I run the show if things feel messy
  • Yes—I prefer control

2R. Are you deeply religious?

  • Yes, and I expect others to be
  • Yes, but I don’t push it
  • Spiritual only
  • Not religious at all

2S. Are you argumentative?

  • No, I avoid conflict
  • I speak up respectfully
  • I argue when I care
  • Yes—I’m intense and direct

😬 SOCIAL AWARENESS & SELF-REGULATION

2T. Do you have anxiety?

  • Yes, regularly
  • Occasionally
  • No

2U. Do you unintentionally cause anxiety to others?

  • No, I’m calming
  • Sometimes, when stressed
  • Yes, but I’m working on it
  • Probably—I can be a lot

2V. Are you a loud snorer?

  • Yes, and I bring earplugs for others
  • Sometimes
  • I don’t think so
  • I honestly don’t know

2W. Do you like Donald Trump?

  • Yes
  • No
  • Prefer not to say

🎭 DAILY LIVING STYLE

2X. Do you laugh a lot?

  • Yes, I laugh at everything
  • I laugh with the right people
  • Not really
  • Only when something is really funny

2Y. Are you happy-go-lucky?

  • Totally
  • Mostly
  • Not really
  • No, I’m intense or serious

2Z. Would you describe yourself as serious?

  • Yes
  • Sometimes
  • No
  • I try to keep it balanced

2AA. What annoys you most in shared living?
 (Pick all that apply)

  • Loudness
  • Mess or bad hygiene
  • Gossip
  • Avoiding conflict
  • Bossy energy
  • Nothing—I’m super chill

2AB. What role do you usually play in a home?

  • The cleaner
  • The cook
  • The peacemaker
  • The quiet one
  • The organizer
  • The messy creative

2AC. How do you like to start your day?

  • Silence and coffee
  • Music and movement
  • Morning chat with the group
  • Walks or stretches
  • Doesn’t matter—I’m flexible

2AD. How do you handle conflict?

  • I address it calmly
  • I avoid it
  • I speak up directly
  • I shut down
  • I mediate

2AE. Are you self-aware of your habits?

  • Yes, very
  • Somewhat
  • Not really
  • I think I’m fine—but others might say otherwise

🎂 AGE & ALIGNMENT

2AF. What is your age?

  • 18–24
  • 25–34
  • 35–44
  • 45–54
  • 55–64
  • 65+

2AG. What age group do you vibe best with?

  • 18–29
  • 30–39
  • 40–55
  • 55+
  • I connect across all ages

🌱 FINAL CHECK-IN

Why are you seeking this change in your life right now?
 (Open response or choose from below)

  • I feel stuck or uninspired
  • I’m healing from a loss or breakup
  • I want to find my people
  • I’m ready to reinvent myself
  • I’m done with toxic environments
  • I just want peace

🧺 2AH. Interests & Activities

(Used to match you with women who enjoy similar lifestyles or downtime hobbies)

🍳 Do you enjoy cooking?

  • Yes, I love cooking for others
  • I like cooking for myself only
  • I cook when I have to
  • I don’t cook at all

🛍️ Do you love shopping?

  • Yes, it’s my therapy
  • I enjoy it with friends
  • Only for essentials
  • No, I avoid it

🥾 Do you enjoy hiking or nature walks?

  • Yes, as often as possible
  • Occasionally
  • Only if the group is going
  • Not really my thing

🏀 Do you enjoy sports (watching or playing)?

  • I love playing sports
  • I love watching them
  • I’m not into sports
  • I’m open if it’s social

🏊‍♀️ Do you enjoy swimming or being in water?

  • Yes, I’m a total water baby
  • I like it sometimes
  • I’ll dip a toe
  • I don’t swim

🎬 Do you enjoy watching movies/shows?

  • Yes, regularly
  • Occasionally
  • Only with others
  • Rarely or never

📚 Do you enjoy reading?

  • I read all the time
  • I enjoy it on retreat or vacation
  • I like audiobooks/podcasts more
  • Not really into reading

🧠 1. Communication Style

This affects how conflict, planning, and bonding unfold.

  • Do you like talking things out right away or processing first?
  • Are you comfortable setting boundaries verbally?
  • Do you like direct honesty or more gentle delivery?
  • How do you handle misunderstandings?

💞 2. Attachment & Social Energy

Helps others know how emotionally close or independent you are.

  • Do you get attached to people easily?
  • Do you need a lot of alone time?
  • Do you feel left out easily?
  • Do you recharge with people or in solitude?

🎯 3. Decision-Making & Planning

Shows whether someone is go-with-the-flow or needs structure.

  • Do you prefer to plan things in advance or be spontaneous?
  • Are you decisive or do you ask others to choose?
  • How do you handle a last-minute change of plans?

🔥 4. Triggers & Boundaries

Everyone has them—what matters is knowing them.

  • What is something small that really bothers you in shared space?
  • What’s a hard boundary for you emotionally or physically?
  • Do you shut down, lash out, or communicate when triggered?
  • How do you prefer to be approached if someone has feedback for you?

🔄 5. Flexibility & Adaptability

This decides how peaceful (or chaotic) group dynamics feel.

  • How do you handle when things don’t go your way?
  • Are you okay being in a group with different values or habits?
  • Do you need everything “your way” to be comfortable?

🧭 6. Direction & Goals

Helps align those seeking depth, adventure, or healing.

  • Are you in a season of rest, growth, or transformation?
  • Do you currently have a spiritual or healing practice?
  • Are you seeking sisterhood, solitude, or structure?
  • Are you actively avoiding certain people, behaviors, or energies?

🧬 7. Trauma Awareness & Respect

Shows safety and emotional maturity.

  • Are you trauma-informed?
  • Are you okay being around others who may be healing from trauma?
  • Do you know your own limits when it comes to emotional sharing?

🧠 2AI. Communication, Boundaries & Emotional Awareness

📢 COMMUNICATION STYLE

How do you usually process conflict or feedback?

  • I need time to think before responding
  • I like to talk things out right away
  • I avoid confrontation entirely
  • I appreciate feedback but prefer it gently

How do you prefer to communicate in shared living?

  • Direct and clear
  • Friendly and soft
  • Through group text or written notes
  • I’m adaptable to the vibe

💞 ATTACHMENT & SOCIAL ENERGY

How easily do you get emotionally attached to others?

  • Very easily—I bond quickly
  • Slowly—it takes time to trust
  • Rarely—I prefer keeping space
  • Depends on the person and energy

How much alone time do you need?

  • A lot—daily solo time is sacred
  • Some—I enjoy balance
  • Not much—I love being around people
  • I adjust depending on who I’m with

Do you get FOMO or feel left out easily?

  • Yes
  • Sometimes
  • No

🎯 DECISION-MAKING STYLE

How do you prefer to plan things?

  • I love planning in advance
  • I go with the flow
  • I like a loose plan with wiggle room
  • I get overwhelmed by planning

How do you handle last-minute changes?

  • I adapt quickly
  • I struggle but try to go with it
  • I get anxious or upset
  • I usually suggest alternatives

🔥 TRIGGERS & BOUNDARIES

What’s one thing that really bothers you in shared space?
 (Open response or select)

  • Loud noise
  • Mess/clutter
  • Being ignored
  • Bossy behavior
  • People who dominate conversations
  • People not cleaning after themselves

How do you handle being emotionally triggered?

  • I need space
  • I talk it out
  • I shut down
  • I cry or leave
  • I let people know directly

How do you prefer others address you if there’s a problem?

  • Calm, direct conversation
  • Private message
  • Group chat or mediation
  • I’d rather be left alone

🔄 FLEXIBILITY & ADAPTABILITY

How do you respond when things don’t go your way?

  • I try to adapt
  • I need time to reset
  • I get frustrated
  • I try to take control of the situation

Can you live comfortably with people who have different habits or beliefs?

  • Yes, I love diversity
  • Mostly, as long as it’s respectful
  • Only if it doesn’t clash with mine
  • No, I prefer like-minded women

🧭 LIFE DIRECTION & CURRENT SEASON

Which season of life are you in?

  • Rest & recovery
  • Expansion & growth
  • Letting go & healing
  • Rebuilding & rediscovering
  • Reinvention or big transition

Do you have a current spiritual or healing practice?

  • Yes, deeply
  • Somewhat
  • Not at the moment
  • I’m just starting

What are you seeking most from others right now?

  • Deep friendship
  • Peaceful coexistence
  • Emotional safety
  • Creative inspiration
  • Silence and space

🧬 TRAUMA AWARENESS & EMOTIONAL SAFETY

Are you trauma-informed or aware of trauma sensitivity?

  • Yes, trained or experienced
  • I’m aware and respectful
  • I try to be, but I’m still learning
  • Not really

Can you be around people who are in active emotional healing?

  • Yes, I hold space
  • Yes, with boundaries
  • I’d prefer not to
  • I’m also healing and need care too

💌 FINAL QUESTION

What’s one thing you wish others knew about you before living or traveling together?
 (Open text box)